You’re overwhelmed at work. Projects are piling up around the house. Do you feel like you need to relax and recharge? Of course!
But you don’t have to book an expensive weekend at a resort to soothe your stressed-out soul. Wellness coaches say many of the benefits you’ll get from a trip to the spa can be easily replicated at home, with a little DIY—and at a fraction of the cost. This year, treat yourself to a break in the comfort of your own house (on Mother’s Day, perhaps?). Here’s how experts recommend giving a boost to your bliss.
Block Out Time (And Commit To It)
Look at your calendar and plan a half or full day each month for your retreat, says Flagstaff, Ariz.–based nutrition and yoga coach Val Minos. “Take it as seriously as you would a work meeting or appointment,” she says, “and let everyone know you’re not available at that time.” Don’t have that much time to kick back? Take what you can. One hour a week or even a few moments each day will help lighten your mood, lower stress and sharpen your thinking, she says.
Create A Peaceful Space
Gather up some throw pillows, a rug or a comfy chair in a room where you have privacy. Try to keep it free of clutter. And, perhaps most important, check your devices at the door. “Turn off the cell phone,” says New York City–based therapist and health coach Rachel Gersten. “Spend some time unplugged, reading a book or meditating.”
Focus On Breathing
Controlled breathing exercises have been shown to reduce stress, increase alertness and boost your immune system. Minneapolis-based health and lifestyle coach Samantha Kelley suggests the “three second” method: Breathe in for three seconds, hold for three seconds, and then exhale for three seconds. “It can really make a difference in lowering your anxiety and quieting your overactive mind,” she says. Or, even easier, just smile. “It sounds silly, but the act of smiling may lower blood pressure and reduce stress,” says Kelley. “Even if it’s a pretend smile, your body reacts by releasing feel-good chemicals like serotonin.”
Make Your Own Spa Treatments
Transform your nook into an oasis of calm by appealing to all your senses. First, use a diffuser to release aromatherapy fragrances into the air. Wood-based scents are grounding, peppermint and citrus are energizing, and lavender is relaxing, says Seattle-based mindfulness life coach Melissa McClain. And while you could splurge on a massage at a day spa, it’s possible to loosen muscles by taking a warm bath with magnesium sulfate and then stretching afterward to ease out kinks. To make your bath feel even more indulgent, slather on a homemade face mask or hair mask while you soak.
Take It Outside
A truly effective self-care routine isn’t limited to four walls. A recent study found that when people take time to notice the natural world around them, their general happiness and sense of connectedness increases. Minos suggests taking a brisk walk, enjoying a picnic lunch or setting out on a staycation-like outing to a nearby museum. The best part? You don’t have to do it alone. “For some people, self care is about connecting with others,” says Austin, Tex.–based personal trainer Karen Rooff. “For others, self care is about retreating alone into silence. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter how you do it, just that you choose activities that are nourishing for you.”
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By Katrina Brown Hunt