Mother’s Day is just around the corner and there’s a good chance you’re looking for gift ideas. To ensure Mom isn’t disappointed, read on for a list of gifts to avoid come May 10—and what you should buy instead.
Breakfast in Bed
So, you’re spending Mother’s Day weekend at your parents’ place. Breakfast in bed seems like a great idea, right? While it may seem like a thoughtful gesture, it’s actually quite a challenge to pull it off without ending up with crumbs, eggs, spilled coffee and slabs of bacon in the bed. And if you think Mom’s cleaning up that mess on her special day, think again.
The Switch: Make it easy on the whole family and take your mother to a restaurant instead. She’ll appreciate the effort—and the lack of cleanup involved.
How about a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates? That’ll do the trick, right? Au contraire, mon frère. While there’s nothing wrong with daffodils and candy, they’re rather impersonal and aren’t the most original of gift ideas. They’re great presents for someone you don’t know particularly well, but your mother deserves a bit more.
The Switch: Surprise Mom with a picnic basket filled with treats she loves, like freshly-baked croissants from the local bakery, her favorite cheese and a bottle of bubbly. She’ll appreciate the thought much more when you’ve gone to a little extra trouble.
When was the last time someone bought you clothes that you actually liked? Never, that’s when. You may think you know your mother’s taste when it comes to clothing, but tastes change—and you may not be as perceptive as you think you are. Sure, your mother may feign interest in a wool cardigan, but does that mean she’ll actually wear it when you aren’t around?
The Switch: Buy Mom a gift card for a clothing store she likes. It’s the only way to guarantee she’ll end up with something she actually wants.
Your mother has been around for a while now. She’s seen it all—been there, done that.
So why not expose her to something new? Get her started on that juice cleanse everyone’s been raving about. Or maybe you could enroll her in a Jazzercise class. Not so fast. You may think Mom is bored of the same old stuff, but the fact is she’s seen enough to know what she likes—and what she doesn’t like.
The Switch: Instead of signing her up for something she may hate, why not book her for a day of pampering at her favorite spa? Some all-alone, me-time will make her happy.
It’s kind of genius, especially if your Mom is a busy body. You sneak in and clean up, do the laundry, put flowers on the table and stock the refrigerator with essentials—all while Mom is away. The only caveat? It gives Mom a break for just that one week. She’ll be back at her routine before she knows it. That’s not much of a celebration now, is it?
The Switch: Buy Mom a couple of gift certificates from the local cleaning company or maid service. That way she can redeem them whenever she runs into a really busy week.
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By Greg Dalgetty